Fw: CHINESE TANTRA





> > > ONE. Give people more than they expect and do it
> > > cheerfully.

> > > TWO. Marry a man/woman you love to talk to. As you
> > > get older, their
> > > conversational skills will be as important as any
> > > other.
> > >
> > > THREE. Don't believe all you hear, spend all you
> > > have or sleep all you
> > > want.

> > > FOUR. When you say, "I love you", mean it.
> > >

> > > FIVE. When you say, "I'm sorry", look the person in
> > > the eye.


> > > SIX. Be engaged at least six months before you get
> > > married.
> > >

> > > SEVEN. Believe in love at first sight.
> > >

> > > EIGHT. Never laugh at anyone's dreams. People who
> > > don't have dreams don't
> > > have much.
> > >

> > > NINE. Love deeply and passionately. You might get
> > > hurt but it's the only
> > > way to live life completely.
> > >

> > > TEN. In disagreements, fight fairly. No name
> > > calling.
> > >

> > > ELEVEN. Don't judge people by their relatives.
> > >

> > > TWELVE. Talk slowly but think quickly.
> > >

> > > THIRTEEN. When someone asks you a question you don't
> > > want to answer, smile
> > > and ask, "Why do you want to know?"
> > >

> > > FOURTEEN. Remember that great love and great
> > > achievements involve great risk.
> > >

> > > FIFTEEN. Say "bless you" when you hear someone
> > > sneeze.
> > >

> > > SIXTEEN. When you lose, don't lose the lesson.
> > >

> > > SEVENTEEN. Remember the three R's: Respect for self;
> > > Respect for
> > > others; Responsibility for all your actions.
> > >

> > > EIGHTEEN. Don't let a little dispute injure a great
> > > friendship.
> > >

> > > NINETEEN. When you realize you've made a mistake,
> > > take immediate steps to
> > > correct it.
> > >

> > > TWENTY. Smile when picking up the phone. The caller
> > > will hear it in
> > > your voice.
> > >

> > > TWENTY ONE. Spend some time alone.
> > >